Are you worried about being overlooked and overshadowed?
Once the baby arrives, it will be dominated by three major needs - sleep, poop and food. If your child is breastfeeding, it's - naturally - the mother who is the epicentre in this period. However, the sense that you aren’t important could not be further from the truth. You are also a parent. You also connected with your child during this period, only in a slightly different way than the mother. You’ll have to approach things tentatively, but approach them you should. If you choose to bottle feed your baby - perfect - then it can be your moment together.