Who Organises the Baby Shower? Common Questions & Answers
Planning a baby shower is both fun and an honour, but it often raises questions. Who typically hosts the baby shower? Should it be a surprise? And how far before the due date should it take place? Here you’ll find answers to the most frequently asked questions about who organises the baby shower—making planning smooth and joyful.
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Written by Linnea Dinesen
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Who usually organises a baby shower?
Traditionally, a close friend, sister, or sister-in-law hosts the baby shower—someone other than the expectant mother herself. The idea is that it’s a loving gesture from friends or family.
But times change! Nowadays, it's not uncommon for the mum-to-be to be involved in the planning, or even take the initiative. What matters most is what feels right for you.
Can several people plan the baby shower together?
Yes, absolutely! Working together makes it easier to share responsibilities and ideas. A group of friends or siblings can plan everything from food and games to decorations and gifts.
When is a baby shower usually held?
Baby showers are typically held in the third trimester, often between weeks 28 and 36. This is when many pregnant women still have enough energy, and the bump is big enough for the celebration to feel “real.”
Should the baby shower be a surprise?
That depends on the person! Some love surprises, while others prefer to be in the loop. It’s best to gauge what suits the mum-to-be—or sneak in a few questions to avoid spoiling the surprise.
Can you organise a baby shower remotely?
Yes! If guests live far away or someone at risk can't attend, a virtual baby shower via Zoom or another platform works great. You can still share games, gifts, and good company—even through a screen.
Written by Linnea Dinesen
Content Creator
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