Who Hosts the Baby Shower? Common Questions & Answers
Planning a baby shower is fun and meaningful, but it often raises questions. Who typically hosts the baby shower? Should it be a surprise? And how far ahead of the due date should it be held? Here’s a guide to the most common questions about baby shower planning, to help make the process smooth and enjoyable.
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Written by Linnea Dinesen
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Who usually hosts a baby shower?
Traditionally, a close friend, sister, or sister-in-law throws the baby shower—someone other than the mom-to-be herself. The idea is that it’s a loving gesture from friends or family.
But times have changed! Today, it’s not unusual for the expectant mother to be involved in the planning or even to take the lead. What matters most is what feels right for you.
Can more than one person plan the baby shower?
Definitely! Teaming up makes it easier to share responsibilities and come up with fun ideas. A group of friends or siblings can plan everything from food and games to decorations and gifts.
When is the baby shower usually held?
Baby showers are typically held in the third trimester, often between weeks 28 and 36. That’s when the mom-to-be often has more energy than in the very final weeks, and her bump is big enough to make it feel festive.
Should the baby shower be a surprise?
That depends on the person! Some people love surprises, while others prefer to know what’s going on. It’s best to get a feel for what the mom-to-be would like—or ask a few discreet questions so you don’t ruin the surprise.
Can you throw a virtual baby shower?
Absolutely! If guests live far away or someone in a high-risk group can’t attend, a digital baby shower on Zoom or another platform is a great option. You can still enjoy games, gifts, and bonding—even from afar.
Written by Linnea Dinesen
Content Creator
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