Step by Step: How to Potty Train Your Child

1. Prepare Your Child Mentally

Before starting with the potty itself, build curiosity and understanding.

• Talk about what pee and poop are, read books, or show how others do it.
• Let your child come along to the bathroom if they want.
• Let a teddy bear or doll “use the potty” as a game.

Tip: Keep the potty out in the open so your child gets familiar with it.

2. Choose the Right Gear

To make potty training feel safe and fun, your child should feel comfortable.

• Pick a sturdy potty or a toilet seat with a step stool.
• Have more than one if you move between rooms or houses.
• Wipes, extra clothes, and training underwear can make things easier.

3. Pick the Right Time to Start

Potty training takes calm and time. Choose a period without big changes (like moving or starting daycare).

• Set aside a few days with fewer plans.
• Let your child go diaper-free at home to better feel the signals.
• Take them to the potty regularly: after meals, naps, playtime, and before bed.

4. Build a Routine

Routines make kids feel secure. Keep the potty in one spot and do the same steps each time.

• Have your child sit for a short while, ideally after meals.
• Use a “potty song” or read a short book.
• Talk calmly about what’s happening and praise every effort.

5. Encourage and Praise

Kids need positive reinforcement even when things don’t go perfectly.

• Say things like “Great job trying!” instead of focusing on the outcome.
• Small rewards like stickers or high fives can help.
• Don’t scold for accidents – they’re part of the learning process.

6. Teach Hygiene Along the Way

Make handwashing a natural step after each potty try.

• Use a step stool so your child can reach the sink.
• Show how to wipe properly.
• Make it fun with their own soap, for example.

7. Track Progress with a Potty Chart

A potty chart helps both you and your child see progress. Fill it out together:

• When your child pees or poops in the potty.
• How it felt.
• Any accidents (without shame!).

Download our potty chart and hang it on the fridge!

Remember:

Every child is different. Some learn in just a few days, others need more time. The most important thing is to go at your child’s pace and keep it positive. If it feels too stressful, take a break and try again later.

Read also: Potty Training at Age 2 – Common Challenges and Solutions