How does labour pain feel like?

Usually, we talk about acute or chronic pain, but labor pain is neither and differs completely from other pain conditions. Throughout history, we have learned that pain signals danger, death, or illness. But contractions that induce a delivery are a sign of something positive. What you have been waiting for and longing for is finally about to happen!

No other pain has a positive message like labor pain. There is no other similar condition where the pain comes and goes and you have the chance to take a break, rest, relax and gather energy to meet the next wave. In other words, labor pain is special. If it weren’t, and women weren’t able to cope with it, reproduction wouldn’t have worked and the human race wouldn’t have survived. If you are expecting your first baby and are worried, just think of all the women who chose to do it all over again, and again and again.

It’s natural to be nervous before the delivery. It hurts to give birth, there’s no denying that, so prepare yourself and learn as much about the different delivery stages as you can. The most important preparation is to manage and meet the pain, which makes it even more important to find out beforehand what is happening in the body during childbirth. It’s also advisable to read up and ask your care provider about different forms of pain relief. Today, mothers have an active role in selecting pain relief. But since you never know how the delivery will turn out, it’s good not to decide too much beforehand. Try to consult with the care provider when it’s happening and remember you can only control the delivery to a certain degree.

One way to meet the pain is by making sounds and screaming. It could feel good but it’s very different from a woman to a woman if you want to scream or not. To scream in panic is never good, you’ll tense up and resist and then you waste a lot of energy. But screaming might also relax your abdomen and vagina and let off the pressure. It could be good if you worry that it’ll go too fast when you are pushing out your baby. If you want to maximize the effect of your pushes, it’s better to scream at that time.

There seems to be something that makes women who have had a baby forget the pain afterward. Many also say in hindsight that the pain and the labor were exhilarating feelings where the pain came in waves with stronger and stronger power, but it was alright as long as they could relax and concentrate on breathing between the contractions. The feeling during the pushing stage, when the body takes over and it’s not possible to stop what is happening, can feel overwhelming, but at the same time, incredibly fascinating. And then you’ll get your reward!